Dating Tips: 9 Signs a Guy Is a Keeper

I got this from yahoo..these are some qualities that girls want in a guy..

Dating Tips: 9 Signs a Guy Is a Keeper
Think you've found The One? We asked relationship experts to help singles spot the clues that indicate serious boyfriend (and beyond) potential. Here's what to look for when separating the princes from the toads.


#1. Keeper clue: He has his act together.
This seems like a no-brainer, but it's a good place to start. "It's very important that you two be able to have a lot of fun together, so a party boy or a screw-up will probably not work out for you," says Mira Kirshenbaum, a family and couples therapist and author of Is He Mr. Right? "No matter how charming he is, if he is still struggling to grow up, it will get very old, very fast."


#2. Keeper clue: He puts you first.
Picture a delicious platter of grilled steak. Does your man offer it to you first to pick the best piece? He does if he's a keeper! "When it comes to taking the best piece of meat or offering it to you, that's a metaphor for how he'd always put you first the rest of your life," says Rachel Greenwald, author of "Why He Didn't Call


#3. Keeper clue: He's not afraid of your germs.
You know a guy is really into you when he can't stay away, even when you're bedridden and snotty. "When you're sick with the flu, he says, 'Let me come over and take care of you,' rather than, 'Oooh, you sound really contagious... call me when you're feeling better,'" Greenwald says.


#4. Keeper clue: He's a family man.
He asks about your family, and he seems to genuinely want to hear about them. "Interest in your family shows that he thinks about you as a whole person, and he knows that being with you means understanding and accepting your relatives too," says Sarah Harrison, senior editor of yourtango.com.


#5. Keeper clue: He makes time for your friends.
In the beginning of your relationship, does your man show an interest in meeting your besties? And does he follow it up with a plan, like hosting a low-key dinner party? "Friends are an important part of your life, and his knowing them makes him more involved with you." Harrison says. "Plus, he'll have to deal with them at some point, so initiating it himself shows maturity."


#6. Keeper clue: He's your biggest cheerleader.
And she even has a poem:
When your guy calls your mom to tell her about your promotion before you do, that should tell you something. A man who is supportive of you and your goals is typically a guy who doesn't "feel threatened by your success," says Kirshenbaum. "He knows who he is and where he's going," which means he can ultimately be there for you.


#7. Keeper clue: He remembers the little things.
Does your man really listen to you? You'll know he's a keeper if you tell him you have a big scary work meeting and the next time you talk, he asks how it went. Or if you tell him you left your sunglasses at his house and he remembers them on your next date. "Following up on things you say to him means he pays attention to you -- always a good sign," Harrison says.


#8. Keeper clue: He's happy when you're happy.
This is the guy who "goes to a chick flick with you on Friday night rather than an action film -- not because he actually wants to, but because it makes you happy," says Greenwald.


#9. Keeper clue: He makes you the best you can be.
A guy who makes you feel like the luckiest woman alive -- like you can (and should!) be your confident, fabulous self -- is worth hanging on to. "It's not just about how you feel about him but more about how he makes you feel about yourself," Kirshenbaum says.

I'm back..

Hello everyone...
It has such a long time since I blogged..Just didnt have the mood & the laziness was bugging me & also was quite buzy lately..Now that I'm free,I'm blogging again.

Mmmmm...alot of things have happened lately.One of it would be my sister's marriage which happened on the 4th of July 2009.It all happened so fast & now she is married.We were like doing the countdown to the wedding from a year ago to 6 months to 3 months to a month & finally THE DAY.I am so happy for her as she has been waiting for such a long time for her Prince Charming to arrive..My parents are very happy as well as this is their 1st daughter's marriage and finally it happened.They have been waiting for it too..Now that we have a new addition to the family that is my brother-in-law,we feel so happy.He is a very nice & cool person.Glad my sis found the right guy.

The journey to the wedding was not easy as we have been preparing for it for like a year prior to the wedding.A lot of things had to be done like fixing the date of the wedding,engagement,distributing cards,the venue,dinner & more..I was with my parents throughout the whole planning & process & trust me,its not easy.But we enjoyed the whole journey as it only happens once in a while & not everyday.I learnt a lot of things too during these whole journey.Wish I cud go back in time 4 all these...Really gona miss all these moments & im gona cherish it forever.:-)

Nenje nenje song from Ayan

Post speaking test..

Hmmmm...it was okay & not okay.I made a lot of stupid mistake.I was not talking smoothly,so many "ahhhhzzz" here & there.However,the question was okay.Just dont want to talk about it anymore till the results.
Malas nak blog at the moment...bye!

MUET Speaking Test

Tomorrow(6/5/09) is my MUET speaking test...I am in the 1st session & the 2nd group...freaking out like hell..cant imagine what question is going to come out..today it was my friends turn..she was in the 2nd session & the question was something to do with national unity..a question that we least expected..hope i dont blabber & get my tongue twisted..i always tend to do that when im nervous..hope my group members will be okay tomorrow & help each other for task B!!!
will update bout it tomorrow...chowz!!

MUET was crappy & I got tanned

Ok,seriously speaking...Last Saturday's Muet was crappy & all of us r already planning to repeat it end of tiz year...I'm not joking..:-(
The comprehension part was quite hard I can say 60% hard & 40% ok-ok lah...not easy at all..if u read the questions & the passage,u will know wat I'm talkin bout...

The essay ques aso was not so good...didnt really had enuff time...the question was about technology which all of us were hoping for...thnk GOD! The ques is like..."Information & communication technology(ICT) is the cause of today's many social ills.Give ur opinion"
I sumhow do not agree wit the opinion & wrote crap..shit,wish i had more time..

Then cums the Listening paper....i tell u,it was hard & we cud barely hear the words clearly...I wrote crap again...& not only me,my frenz too...

I didnt expect the questions to b like dat....now my only hope wud b speakin which is next week...on the 6th May....My group members are not ok...Im so dissapointed...Hopefully God shows sum mercy...:-)

Hmmmm...the tanning part was bcoz last sunday there was tiz Jom Heboh Carnival TV3 in Lumut Naval Base & Hari Armada...went for it & the weather was striking hot...it was crowded,full wit Malays oni lah..hardly cud c any Chinese or Indians...hmmm...
then there was the parade of all the naval ships...The ship that rescued the hostages from Somalia last year was there too..cool huh?
Oh ya,forgot to tell tiz...Lumut is now Bandar Tentera Laut & its the first in Asia & 7th or 8th in the world...isnt that sumthin 2 b proud of?? wow!!!
& im proud to be a Navy officer's daughter too...(not flatterin myself,juz proud)
Chow!!!

MUET

Hello again.......

looks like my blog has so much of dust!!! :-P
such a long time since i blogged...all i can say is i am buzy.buzy,buzy!!!!!!!! I totally agree with the phrase " So much to do,So little time" Seriously speaking,i have a lot of things to do..Ahhhhhh,ok ok,i dont wana bore u ppl with my same ol story...

Tomorrow(25/4/09) is my MUET exam......crap!!! For some who doesnt knoe wat it is...MUET stands for Malaysian University English Test.It is a must for form 6 students.
Back to the story..im so freakin nervous...i was so relaxed about Muet & now im feeling the heat!! Damn!! Dono wat im gona write 4 the writing paper..hope the questions are sumthing that I have read or came across before...My Muet teacher have been guiding us a lot through out the year....hope we can do it...
I dont wana hope to much for the results like how some ppl say "oh,band 3 or 4 wud be enuff for me..." but actually they r juz lying..its juz to show off that they are good...seriously speaking "WHATEVER"!!!!!
I will just do my best & accept watever results...
ok,enuff of the blabbering..;-P
c ya

Death Report

147,189 People

Unusual Deaths in 1990(27 Dec 1990)

Joseph w. burrus, aged 32, an aspiring magician, decided to perform the "buried alive" illusion in a plastic box covered with cement. the cement crushed the box and he died of asphyxia.

George allen, an american football coach, died a month after some of his players gave him a gatorade shower following a victory (as it is tradition in american football). some argue this resulted in pneumonia.

Natural disasters in 1990
1990 Iran earthquake
1990 Luzon earthquake
P

eople who died on December 27 (various years)
2005 - William Doody, Canadian politician
2004 - Hank Garland, American musician
2003 - Ivan Calderon, Puerto Rican Major League Baseball player (murdered)
2003 - Alan Bates, English actor
2002 - George Roy Hill, American film director
1997 - Billy Wright, Irish Protestant paramilitary leader
1997 - Brendan Gill, American columnist and humorist
1995 - Shura Cherkassky, Ukrainian classical pianist
1993 - André Pilette, Belgian racing driver
1992 - Kay Boyle, American writer
1988 - Hal Ashby, American film director
1987 - Geoffrey D Lloyd, Chairman of the guild of British Newspaper editors
1982 - John Swigert, American astronaut
1981 - Hoagy Carmichael, American composer and singer
1978 - Houari Boumédienne, President of Algeria
1978 - Bob Luman, American country and rockabilly singer
1974 - Vladimir Aleksandrovich Fock, Russian physicist
1972 - Lester B. Pearson, fourteenth Prime Minister of Canada, recipient of the 1957 Nobel Peace Prize
1966 - Guillermo Stábile, Argentine footballer
1965 - Edgar Ende, German painter
1956 - Lambert McKenna, Irish editor and lexicographer.
1955 - Alfred Francis Blakeney Carpenter, English soldier
1953 - Julian Tuwim, Polish poet
1952 - Patrick Joseph Hartigan, Australian Roman Catholic priest
1950 - Max Beckmann, German painter
1938 - Osip Mandelstam, Russian poet
1938 - Calvin Bridges, American geneticist
1925 - Sergei Yesenin, Russian poet
1923 - Gustave Eiffel, French engineer and architect
1914 - Charles Martin Hall, American chemist and inventor
1900 - William George Armstrong, English inventor, industrialist, and engineer
1896 - John Brown, British manufacturer
1858 - Alexandre Pierre François Boëly, French composer
1836 - Stephen F. Austin, American pioneer
1834 - Charles Lamb, English essayist
1812 - Joanna Southcott, an English self-described religious prophetess.
1812 - Shneur Zalman of Liadi, Lithuanian rabbi and founder of Chabad Hasidism
1800 - Hugh Blair, Scottish preacher and man of letters
1782 - Henry Home, Lord Kames, Scottish philosopher
1771 - Henri Pitot, French engineer
1743 - Hyacinthe Rigaud, French painter
1737 - William Bowyer, English printer
1707 - Jean Mabillon, French palaeograopher and diplomat
1603 - Thomas Cartwright, English Puritan clergyman
1548 - Francesco Spiera, Italian Protestant jurist
1381 - Edmund Mortimer, 3rd Earl of March, English politician
1076 - Prince Svyatoslav II of Kiev
418 - Zosimus, Greek pope

One of my favourite song from a beautiful tamil movie "Varanam Ayiram"

Song : Nenjukkul Paeithidum Singer : Hariharan,

Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai

Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai

Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai

Pennae un mel pizhai… hoohoo

Nillaamal veesidum peralai

Nenjukkul ninthidum tharaghai

Ponvannam sudiya kaarighai

Pennae nee kaanchanai…

Hoo Shanthi Shanthi..Hoo Shanthi…

En uyirai uyirai nee yenthi

Yehn sendraai sendraai ennai thaandi

Eni nee than enthan anthaathi

Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai

Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai

Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai

Pennae un mel pizhai…

Yetho ondru ennai irkka

Mookkin nooni marmam serkka

Kalla thanam yethum illa, punnagaiyo bogham illa

Nee nindra idam endraal, kilai yeri poghatho?

Nee sellum vazhiyellam, pani katti aaghatho?

Ennodu vaa, veedu varaikkum

En veetai paar, ennai pidikkum!

Ival yaaro yaaro theriyaathae..

Ival pinnal nenjai poghathae

Iru pooiyo maeiyo theriyaathae

Ival pinnal nenjai poghathae…[ Poghaathae...]

Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai

Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai

Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai

Pennae un mel pizhai… hoohoo

Nillaamal veesidum peralai

Nenjukkul ninthidum tharaghai

Ponvannam sudiya kaarighai

Pennae nee kaanchanai…

Thukkangalai thukki sendraai [ F : thukki sendraai]

Yekkangali thuvi sendraai,

Unnai thaandi poghum pothu [ F : poghum pothu]

Veesum kaatrin veechuvaen!

Nillendru nee sonnaal

En kaalam nagarathae

Nee sudum poovellam

Oru pothum uthiraathae

Kaathal yenae kekkavillai

Kekkathathu kaathil illai!

En jeevan jeevan neethanae

Ennathonrum neram idhu thaanae

Nee illai illai endraalae…

En nenjam nenjam thaanghathae…

[F : Nenjukkul paeithidum maamazhai

Neerukkul mulkidum thaamarai

Sarrendru maaruthu vaanizhai

Pennae un mel pizhai...]

[M & F : Nillaamal veesidum peralai

Nenjukkul ninthidum tharaghai

Ponvannam sudiya kaarighai

Pennae nee kaachchanai...]

Hoo Shanthi Shanthi..Hoo Shanthi…

En uyirai uyirai nee yenthi

Yehn sendraai sendraai ennai thandi

Eni nee than enthan anthaathi

Reflecting 2008

I know it's a little too late 2 blog on this topic(very late indeed)...but u will understand why is that so in my previous blog...

2008 had been a great year for me..a lot of things happened to me & i never thought all this would ever happen...from NS to new friends to Form 6 & more...i will tell u in detail...

Things That Happened To Me/Things That I Achieved....

• National Service Training

I was so sad that i got selected & my friends didnt...I was so not interested in going 4 the training...I cried,why me??? but i was wrong...i learned a lot there..i gained so much of experience,got to do many things,stayed away from family & home for 3 months & when i graduated from thet training,i was so proud that I actually went for it(minus the tanning) & completed it making my dad & family proud(my dad was so proud that he kept on telling all his friends his daughter went 4 NS!!)

• New Friends

Hmmm...I got so many friends while I was in NS of diff. race,diff.personality & more...I really miss those days where we had so much of fun cracking jokes at nite,eating maggi mee,solving problems together,going through thick & thin,dancing,singing & so much more...I'm seriously missing all of them but now everyone is so buzy & have parted ways....I wish i could reverse the time back & repeat the same whole thing with all of them again...*sweet*

• Form Six

Don't wish to elaborate much on this as this is my dad's choice..i'm juz doing what he wants..

• Got my driving licence

Haha!!! Another proud one. It took me almost a year to get the frigging licence!! OMG! Dun ask why...!! However,I passed in the 1st trial...hahahahha!!! Now,i can drive my mum,dad & everyone around after seeing them driving me for years!!!!! Woohooo!!

• I turned 18

I'm legal now...but i took me a year to turn into one as my birthday is on the 27th December...im juz a late baby but latest...hahaha!! While all my frens of the same age are busy turning into 19,I have another year to go & enjoy being late!! LOL!

• Became a little more independant

Hmmm...i became a "little more independent" during & after NS..

• Became lazier

Thats juz my nature....I'm trying to change but i dono wen will dat happen..i became more lazier after NS too...i slept more,woke up late & more...hahaha!

• The best thing is "I WAS SINGLE"(that's an achievement to me)

Ya..an achievement!! A really big one!!!!! LOL..:-P

That's about it for 2008..hahahahhaha!!!!! enjoy..:-P

It has been such a long time...

Hello people........
Its been such a long time since I created this miserable blog...Wat a PITY!! Hav been really BUZY & LAZY(it rhymes huh) lately...didnt blog for like 6 months..WOW!! wat a duration...hmmmm...
newayz,actually i was really buzy with a lot of things in the 2nd half of 2008 with school,exam,sisters engagement & more...& also in the 1st month of 2009 with school & more...

only today i had the mood 2 just peep on my blog & start blogging...i have tons of stories to blog...juz keep readin my blog 4 more updates & stories....!!!!!!!!